The father of my unborn child and I are not in relationship, will baby bring us closer? - do arguing hurt the unborn baby
I am currently 22 weeks pregnant. At first when I found out I was pregnant, decided the father of my son, and myself for 2 months (date 6 months before they can leave pregnant, but not as a bf / gf, but to date) and 2 months, I do not speak "and "another girl. Be phased out quickly, after I discussed my feelings and struggled to express how he built instant messaging, while another girl pregnant hurts me, even though it technically has no obligation to me. Lately, he has been very kind to me. It brings me to dinner and movies and sms / call me and make sure I'm fine. He invited me to dinner with his family. I do not know what they think of their actions, because he said there are things like "I'm bored I wish you were here", but the fact that there is no relationship.
I do not take my hope, therefore, to keep my guard.
He wanted to know if someone has already warned that a good relationship changed with the father of her unborn child if the child is born, then.I want to come near my son, but also to me? I would be very much time together will be devoted to caring for the baby. I hear what the Father is in love with the mother because she "mother" to her son.
let me know what you think.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Do Arguing Hurt The Unborn Baby The Father Of My Unborn Child And I Are Not In Relationship, Will Baby Bring Us Closer?
9 comments:
Think about what is happening now. Nobody can predict the future. We would all like to know what life will end, but all we really know what in our past and what is happening now.
You have the power in your heart, and it is time to use it! Take control over themselves and take control of your maternity child. If you are old enough to have a job and raise his son, I hope you go out and take the situation for what it is and think about what's best for you and your child.
Make a list of what you want. NOT include the father of the list. You can not control what the Father does, but you can get your own life and the situation of the child in your womb Control Now. You have the power to them a wonderful life, with or without such. Be strong in yourself and take the appropriate decisions for you and your baby.
If he goes, and shows the respect you then have the power to authorize or to prohibit visits to his life. Your first priority iswhat is best for you and your child. If the father is a distraction, then you can change the background of which may take place now.
I tell you what is now at the head of this man. I have 5 children and a brother, and 6 guys, so I know what I say. This man is waiting for the unborn child, so that you can get a paternity test. After he discovers that he can be your insurance, visit with the child ... They do not.
He wants to go to court, be nice to you so that you can have a relationship with his son, but he is almost certainly want a relationship with you. This does not mean that they do not care about you, but it means that you do not get what you want in a "forever" relationship, and frankly, why should you? What can your child and you can not offer? You are strong! You do not need your trash. If it's worth, is at the moment with you in this difficult time. Men cry not worth my friend's sister, and human rights does not make you cry.
JuYou need support and the real decisions we need to make his life anew with his new son.
My opinion is ready for your child. Get ready to enjoy your life as a mother to her son. Forget about the need for a man or boy in your life. Stand up strong and take care of the little life that is on offer. If you do not have to care because they are too young or unable to meet the needs of the child, you may want to consider, even your child. Sometimes it is the greatest gift of love that can give a child. Whatever your decision is to be done for you. This man is the last in the series when it comes to making decisions ... especially if they contribute to the joy in your life now that need it most.
It is the cold hard truth. Sorry broken to be. The sooner we know, the sooner you can be very difficult to make decisions in life you want to achieve for you and little life growing.
I'm with my BF of 2 years, everything was perfect and after a week before learning she was pregnant, things were very bumppy us, but now they were as close as never before. RSHIP work sometimes and sometimes not. = / Good luck!
Babies can not married to the success or failure of a relationship, especially if. Some men act, like the woman is pregnant, her behavior may change once the baby is born, but unfortunately not all. Good luck, wish you all the best!
It is possible, but no illusions!
Many young people care and respect for the mother of his son, but that does not necessarily mean that two or more to be achieved. I feel bad for the baby, but most children are conceived outside of marriage, usually grow in dysfunctional families. Unless you marriage, because what is proposed, it must be done by his son, I suggest you stay on the alert for the moment, because it has an ulterior motive (ie: I hope you are not for children child support Search) .. .
What happened to my friend who became pregnant when sleep comes to men:
She becomes pregnant, he said he had carried out an abortion is not known for 7 months and has sex with several women at random, suddenly decides to take responsibility for the child and move with my friend, accept a baby and lives with a partner for 5 months, left the country for a house to visit his family back when the baby was 9 months, my friend to get pregnant again immediately leave the country, only reversed after 3 months again.
He has never met his second daughter, and she is now almost one. To make matters worse, both of their children to a disease is genetic and my friend in and out of hospital all the time.
Good luck to you, I do not have much confidence in this type of relationship working for obvious reasons.
So be it possible for you, closer to home. In any case, a link is common to share them with anyone. And if the baby is born, to try to get in touch with what is best for her and her lover (hopefully, if some).
It is difficult to say how things turn, there is always the possibility that you are two in this and develop new relationships, at least try to be friends are related. Try listening to us and do not press a relationship, in fact, I stopped at one of two feelings, which may as long as possible, so if you want a new relationship that is fully prepared to decide and not for good reasons.
Your most important is taking care of your child and avoid fighting over them, and as much as possible. Do this and everything will be fine im sure.
I hope that everything goes well for you, as I am in a similar situation, and I can understand that its introduction. And remember that many great men out there so if you want i not a security riskmap to the right)
To be honest, I do not think a relationship based on the birth of a child, very healthy. The father has always respected as the mother of his child, but if you do not love you before you become pregnant after a small chance to suddenly develop when the baby is born.
My partner took me a year, the second I was pregnant and disappeared for 7 months. Then it is once again apologized and said he wanted to participate with her daughter. I must be honest and say that I have a pretty favorable, practical applicable to the day, until my daughter was born and I realized that I needed. He asked me to marry him and come together again, but I knew it was only the child, so I said no.
Nine years later, my friends, we are very well and is a grandfather. We agree that things have indeed been very different if he was married. We have hated each other nuts and probable.
Be very careful and be aware that your child's first priority is today. They do not.
With a little luck, but it's really make a terrible situation to a relationship. If this is your first reaction was to run to keep in mind that this will always be on your mind. Looks like you could try to (do the right thing are grown in two months) I stopped buuut include lone parents who have known and worked with him my hopes for the long term but does not know. Enjoy it while it lasts.
(not for the many children choose a silly name, the tone is cool)
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